Find a gentler way to signal interest, reflect on your relationship, and turn little discoveries into thoughtful moments. Every feature gives both people a choice.
Choose On when you are open to an invitation, Off when you are not, or leave it Not set. Set an On window of 1 hour, 6 hours, 1 day, or 2 days. Your individual choices stay private unless there is a mutual match.
Off · Not set · On
Overlapping On windows trigger a discreet email and in-app notification for each of you. No match means no alert, not a verdict on your relationship. Either person can change their mind.
You’re in sync
Explore a library of 500 daily prompts and 100 optional weekly questionnaires, totaling 1,500 questions. Topics range from memories and appreciation to intimacy and personal preferences. Skip any question and choose your own depth.
500 daily prompts · 100 weekly sets
The AI reflection coach can suggest thoughtful gestures, conversation starters, memories to revisit, and ways to create time together. Eligible answers may inform your partner’s note only with your permission. Original answers stay out of their view. Weekly notes are separate from light alerts and continue even in a quiet week, subject to your settings and account access.
Individual note · Not live chat
Birthday and anniversary reminders, private gift and experience preferences, and date ideas help make care more specific. Coaching can convey allowed ideas. Your partner does not browse your raw wish list, and the app does not book travel or buy gifts.
Dates · Gestures · Ideas
Choose reminder times, pause reminders, skip topics, manage coaching permissions, and select discreet email summaries or more detailed notes. After a week away, a coarse participation notice may indicate a break without exposing light choices or precise activity.
Your settings · Your choice
| Information | Partner visibility |
|---|---|
| Your unmatched On, Off, or Not set choice | Not shown |
| A mutual On window | Shared match notification |
| Your original questionnaire answers | Not shown |
| Allowed coaching insights based on your answers | May appear paraphrased in their weekly note |
| Precise last-seen time or answer count | Not shown |
| Coarse inactivity after a week or an app pause | May be shown as a participation notice |
No. All questions are optional. Skip anything, choose your comfort level, or use only the light. Deeper topics become available when you choose to explore them.
Mutual light matches generate discreet email and in-app alerts according to your settings. Weekly coaching arrives separately. You can manage reminders and choose a discreet email summary or a more detailed coaching note. Email delivery timing can vary.
After a week without meaningful participation, the app may show a simple “Inactive 1 week+” notice. It does not show precise activity or private light choices. A break from the app is not treated as a statement about intimacy.
One month free for the two of you, starting when the invitation email is sent. No card required. Then $4.79/month per couple, or $49.99 a year if you subscribe.
Your free month begins when the invitation email is sent.